Parenting - A Gift with Love
The children are born with inherent
capabilities and skills that need to be nurtured and navigated in the right
direction to make them happy and successful in their life.
The newly born infants learn to express
themselves by their body language, expressions and temperament to make choices
on their own. The parents are always happy and accommodate their toddler for
every demand they make in me-centered approach and in this journey of parenting
it’s important for parents to remain connected and reinforce bonding with
them.
It’s a beautiful experience to see child growing at
various stages of life and start getting independent.
When the baby is around a year old or
more the parents starts setting limits for everything they do and there is
no-no for many things kids would love to do. Though setting the limits are
important but making do’s and don’ts more obvious shall create a rift between
parents and child that can lead to emotional disconnect in relationship over a
period of time.
This emotional disconnect of relation
is not realised by either of them that keeps growing with time and become more
visible when kids become teen having exposure of friends around them.
During this time and the time ahead there is an
element of comparison and imposition of many unilateral decision either by
parent or so called the Big Boy.
This is one of the reason that leads to lots of
disagreement and difference of opinion between them. The right career choice is
one of such decision that is compromised in this bargain.
So it’s really important for parents to understand
the emotional state of their children and develop a healthy communication
channel with them.
Generally parents put their dreams and aspiration
on their child shoulder rather than taking child’s aspiration and dreams on
their shoulder. The parent’s failure in life becomes a milestone for their kids
and are forced to adopt them
So parents can critically help their children to
choose the right career by helping them in……
· Self-assessment - Know them better
· Make them understand their likes and
dislikes
· Realise dreams, aspirations and passion
· Develop problem solving capabilities
· Handling pressure
So right choice and right career path is a key to
success choose them carefully for happiness in life.
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